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Khushhaal Gharana Tips

Khushaal Gharaana:

A peaceful home makes a peaceful society. These tips are there to help us better our homes, our lives and spread peace and happiness in our homes. Please keep in mind that these tips are geared towards sisters as this is a project for sisters.

  • Be thankful to your spouse.
  • Have atleast one meal with your spouse and try eating from one plate.
  • Invite your husband to a party that is especially arranged for him.
  • Make him feel special for all the hardwork he does for the family.
  • Welcome your husband when he comes home with love and smile as though you were waiting eagerly for him.
  • Make sure to spend some quality time with your spouse.
  • Refrain from falling into dispute with others. Aisha reported Allah's Messenger(may peace be upon him) as saying: The most despicable amongst persons in the eye of Allah is one who tries to fall into dispute with others (for nothing but only to display his knowledge and power of argumentation. (Sahih Muslim: Book #034, Hadith #6447)
  • Refrain from mentioning past arguments and bad memories.
  • Refrain from yelling or shouting at anyone.
  • Suppress your anger by the following ways: Change your environment or your position (If you are standing, sit down, and if you are sitting down, lie down, or change the place) Read "Aa'zu billahi minash-shaitan-nir-rajeem" Be quiet.
  • Show your husband how much you love him Express your feelings to him.
  • Let him know how much he is special for you.
  • Make him feel his importance in your life.
  • Before going to bed Change your dress. Don't sleep in the dress you have been wearing the whole day Put on a washed night suit. If possible, take a shower.
  • Clean your Husbands Closet in the weekend.